What Are You Doing This Valentine’s?
This Valentine’s, do more than flowers and a kiss. Three nights on Kawau Island to create deeper connection and start a new chapter together.
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The Gottman Method: What It Is and How It Compares to EFT
What the Gottman Method is, what happens in a session, what the research says, and how it compares to Emotionally Focused Therapy.
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What Is the Most Effective Couples Therapy?
What the research says about the most effective couples therapy: Emotionally Focused Therapy, IBCT, the Gottman Method and others, and what makes the biggest difference.
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Therapist’s Review
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work review by a couples therapist: Gottman’s main ideas, what critics say about his claims, who it suits.
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Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson: A Couples Therapist’s Review
Hold Me Tight review from a couples therapist trained in EFT: what Sue Johnson’s seven conversations teach, what reviewers say and who it suits.
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“We’re Great Together, I Just Don’t Want Sex”: A Sexless Marriage After 40
A sexless marriage after 40 is more common than you think. You love each other, you’re a good team, and the sex has slowly gone. Here’s what helps you both.
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Anxious and Avoidant: The Dance Most Long Term Couples Are Caught In
Anxious and avoidant: one of you pushes to talk, the other goes silent. The emotional cycle most long-term couples are caught in, and how to step out of it.
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Mismatched Libido: The Sexual Cycle Couples Get Stuck In
Mismatched libido: one wants sex more, one wants it less, and both end up hurt. The sexual cycle many long-term couples are caught in, and how to change it.
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Low Sexual Desire, in Him or in Her
Low sexual desire happens to women and to men, and it’s rarely about not loving your partner. What puts the brakes on desire after 40, and what helps.
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Desire and Menopause: What Changes, What Doesn’t and What Helps
Desire and menopause: what changes in your body and your relationship, what doesn’t, and what helps you both get through it together.
